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The former Wimbledon striker made the shock admission a week after it emerged two top footballers including an England star – plan to come out .
In his first in-depth interview about brother Justin since his tragic suicide in 1998, he said:
"I begged him, I threatened him, I did everything I could possibly do to try and stop him coming out.I gave him the money because I didn't want the embarrassment for me or my family. Had he come out now, it would be a different ball game.
"There wouldn't be an issue, but there was then. Things are different now. Now he'd be hailed a hero.I'll never forget when Justin first told me. He called me in the evening time and said to me: 'I'm gay'."Then he said to me: 'I'm planning to go to a newspaper'. I said to him: 'Oh heavens forbid... oh my God. We don't need that. You're mad'.
"He promised when I gave him the money he would not go out and say that. Two days later... bang... headlines in a newspaper. I looked like a sucker.
"For me and my family it was like Hiroshima or Nagasaki on our lives. It knocked us dead, it was a total shock."People might not like it, but I was trying to protect my family.
"You've got to remember the public's perception of homosexuality at that time was that it was an abomination . It was taboo. Street boys were beating up gays in nightclubs.I give him credit for having the courage to come out and say it. But it caused a lot of confusion and animosity towards him, me, and my family.
"During matches, 30, 40, sometimes 45,000 supporters sang at me: 'You're big... you're black... your a*** is up for grabs... Fashanu... Fashanu'."As a result of him saying what he said, my mother died because of the stress. She actually died a year later on the day of his birthday."She was already old, very fragile and suffering cancer."Then to be told her second eldest son was a homosexual was too much.""I've never spoken about these things before because I was stamped a homophobe.
"But things have changed and I make it very clear: I was wrong. It was ignorance on my behalf.
"I didn't understand him. I was trying to protect my family and I was worried about the effect on my career.In the process I lost my brother and I am very sad about that.
"He committed suicide because he was so distraught the world would not accept a black man who was homosexual.
"I couldn't understand it and I couldn't accept it and so whatever relationship we had before was killed .
"Previous to that, we had been very close, but it just shattered everything. I didn't speak to him again. There's a lot of sadness and regrets."
Of the two football stars preparing to come out as gay , which the Daily Mirror revealed last week: "If these young men feel it is the right time to come out and announce they are homosexual, please don't anybody victimise them.
"Please be careful with words, don't let it lead to the destruction of two men in their prime. I didn't have that wisdom 20 years ago and it led to the destruction of my late brother Justin.
"We must accept them. I beg everybody not to make the same mistakes I made. Give them as much understanding as possible."
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YOU CAN SKIP THIS PART(short joke)...
A young couple moved into a new neighbourhood. The next morning while eating breakfast, the young woman saw her neighbour through the window hanging the wash outside.
"That laundry is not clean," she said. "She doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap".
Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time the neighbour would hang laundry to dry, the young woman would make the same
comments.
About one month later, the woman was surprised to see nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband: "Look, she has learnt how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this!"
The husband replied: "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows."
And so it is with life.
What we see when watching others depends on the purity of the window through which we look.
Easy to discuss other people, their lives and things that don't really concern us.
Yet we tend to forget- our window isn't that clean after all.
Clean up your window with the WORD! (THE TRUTH.)
LORD, please give us the strength, humility and courage that we may work on our faults first rather than seeing the faults in Others and castigating them.
Have a beautiful Week !
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